Habit 4: Think Win Win
The stuff that life is made of
Have an everyone can win attitude
- Win / Lose
I win, you lose. This is competitive and full of pride. it is the comparison that makes you proud, the pleasure of being above the rest.A win-lose attitude wears many faces including using other people for your own selfish purpose,always insisting on getting your way without concerning yourself with the feelings of others.In the end win-lose usually backfires. - Lose / Win I lose, you win. This is where you are the doormat and you let people wipe their feet on you. in this situation you are the weak one who gets stepped on and you set low expectations and compromise your standards over and over again all in the name of being a peacemaker.Win-lose is fine if the issue is not important to you.
- Lose / Lose I lose, you lose. This says if l cant win, you cant win.Lose-lose is when the constant need to win brings out the worst in people so they begin to fight and argue resulting in a downward spiral. Lose-lose occurs in a situation of revenge or a negative obsession and even boyfriend and girlfriend relationships. it happens mostly when two win-lose people get together.
- Win / Win
I win, you win. This is a mindset that everyone can win.It is a belief that there is enough success for everyone.To think win-win you have to avoid competing with someone and comparing yourself to someone. Win-win can help you succeed in things you do.